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By the time mid-July arrives, facebook, instagram, and conversations are often filled with the logistics of grand summer travel. We see the photos of packed suitcases, long airport lines, and beautiful Airbnbs. It is easy to fall into the trap of believing that the only way to truly rest, reset, and experience the magic of summer is to pack up your life and head hundreds of miles away for a week.
There is an alternative: the day-cation.
Some of my sweetest family memories revolve around our one-day outings. The day we drove up into the mountains to visit a Bavarian-inspired town, and it turned out to be the weekend of the apple festival. We all enjoyed bratwurst, strudel, and a marching band streaming down the main street.
Or, the family birthday when we took a long ferry ride out to one of the islands in the Sound, and we were entertained by the antics of several sea critters en route.
And not to forget, one spring day when we visited the tulip fields, and I was able to get all of the family on board with looking at flowers for a day. Now that’s a feat!
The Merits: Why Day-Cations Feel Like True Luxury
- The Huge Budget Win: A longer vacation is costly. The lodging, transportation, and meals out over multiple days gets expensive. In contrast, a day-cation has no lodging expense, a smaller transportation cost, and it’s possible to bring all of the food we could want for the day packed in a picnic basket and cooler. The plain truth is we need time away more often than our budget allows. We can afford an "away" vacation once per year or two years. But a day-cation can happen at any point in the budget.
- Zero Travel Friction: Planning a longer vacation takes time and energy, often weeks of checking fares, researching hotels, making packing lists, and of course that initial travel day can be brutal. A day-cation generally requires planning around one venue. It’s a lot easier to look up the ferry schedule and parking at our one-day destination than to track prices, book a hotel, airfare, and transportation at a miles-away destination. A day-cation can be as simple as checking the weather for the day and saying “let’s do it!”
- Coming Home to Comfort: Sleeping in strange beds for many nights compromises sleep quality. We all do better when we can sleep in our own beds, which we appreciate at the end of a day-cation.
- Timing Is Everything: A long vacation in summer comes at the exact wrong time for my family. Our garden is in full swing, so we would miss the fresh produce. I also wouldn’t be around to tend the garden and do the watering. It could jeopardize some of our harvest that we depend upon for the fall and winter months. In addition, summer is the most beautiful time of the year where we live. We have 9 ugly months and just 3 beautiful ones. Going away in summer just doesn’t make sense.
- Eating Without Repercussions: On our 5-day vacation to California in winter, I struggled a bit to find foods that worked for me and the others. 5 days of sourcing eating possibilities which could meet my allergies and intolerances. Again, here’s an area of bringing our own food that really works for me. We usually bring a picnic lunch composed entirely of homemade foods that I can eat.
- The Power of Anticipation: Instead of waiting all year for one single week of freedom, a series of day-cations spreads the joy across the entire summer. We can do two or three distinct "mini-vacations" scattered throughout July and August, keeping the entire season feeling fresh and abundant.
The Flip Side: The Unavoidable Drawbacks
- The Temptation of the Familiar: Because we begin our day at home and end it also at home, there’s the temptation to do just one load of laundry before heading out, or water just the pumpkin patch, or do that one kitchen cleaning chore. You don’t fully disconnect from home life the way you do when you jet away to a distant venue.
- The Geographic Limit: Taking a day-cation means going someplace sort of nearby, perhaps 2 hours away. If we’re really wanting to get out of our area, into a better weather situation, or experience a different culture, that’s not going to happen 2 hours from our front door.
- Countdown to Time’s Up: As a day-cation happens all in one day, there’s a sort of internal countdown clock that begins to tick away sometime midday while on our fun escapade. We are keenly aware that at the end of this day, the “trip” is over, and we’ll be making the drive home in just a handful of hours. We can’t linger over a lovely sunset or stay for the evening concert in the park if we know we still have a ferry to catch followed by a long drive back to our humble abode. There is a sense that it ends all too soon.
Making This Work When I Still Have to Do My Work








