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russet apples are ready for harvest |
I feel like I'm stranded on a deserted island with my little family sometimes.
The Seattle area used to be a west coast oasis for fairly frugal folk. Many of my in-person friends' parents kept gardens, spent well below their means, drove one car, wore simple but enduring clothing styles for decades, etc. But in my own circle today, it's hard to find any of my contemporaries who continue in their parents' frugal lifestyles. In my extended family, neither of my siblings are frugal. They're both financially successful, so they can afford the luxuries in their lives. I think it's genuinely difficult for them to relate to my daily life. My stepmom was fairly careful with finances in her latter years, however. She grew up on a small farm in Iowa. When she first came into our family, I grilled her regularly on ways her mother stretched their small income.
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come and sit with me for a bit |
The internet has been a wonderful gathering place for people of various like-mindedness. Case in point, we're just a handful of friends, here, and we are scattered not only across this continent, but from other regions of the world. Could it be that truly frugal friends and family are few and far between for many of us here?
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the begonias are still going strong |
Do you have moments in each day where you just want to share your latest frugal accomplishment with a friend, neighbor, or sibling? Or a question when you need help/inspiration/encouragemnt DIY-ing or fixing something yourself?
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but the hydrangeas are about done for the year |
Have you wondered where the cheapest local place would be to buy an X,Y or Z? Do you long to share your bounty of very imperfect-looking garden produce, but are certain most of your friends would shy away from a fruit or vegetable that didn't look as pristine as those found in the market?
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the last of the blackberry foraging I'll freeze these for a winter smoothie or treat |
I keep many of the details of my and my family's life from my siblings. They just wouldn't relate and would most likely suggest remedies that aren't feasible for us. I also fear they would turn up their noses at my homemaking routines. Many of my in-person friends don't get the frugal aspect of me either.
So, I turn to and share with you. You, friends, are always welcome into this little corner of my life.
Do you ever feel like a frugal loner in your real life community of family or friends?