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Friday, July 18, 2014

This week's edibles and other goodies: herbs and pickles

(FYI -- There's a lavender giveaway on yesterday's post, open until Tuesday, July 22.)

Another week of storing away a bit of summer, for enjoyment next winter.


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I cut and harvested pineapple mint and peppermint to use in tea this winter. Freezing seems to hold more volatile oils in the leaves of some herbs, than drying. I froze individual leaves on a tray, then bagged for the freezer.

After washing the mint and pulling off leaves, I took the stems and a few of the leaves and made a mint syrup, to use in making non-alcoholic mint juleps (a la Disneyland-style). I made mint juleps sans the club soda, but used filtered water and poured over ice instead. It was refreshing! If you're interested, a Disney version of mint julep can be found here. Basically, it's lemonade concentrate, lime juice, sugar, creme de menthe non-alcoholic syrup and club soda. I made mine with lemon juice, lime juice, filtered water, my homemade mint syrup, and a lot of crushed ice. I didn't add any extra sugar, as the mint syrup was plenty sweet, and I prefer a tart beverage. I suspect the Disney Blog version would be too sweet for my taste, but my kids would enjoy it. Next time we make seltzer water, I think I'll try using some of that for mint juleps. A couple of weeks ago, we made seltzer water and used it to make red currant Italian sodas (using homemade red currant syrup from this year's currant crop).  

I took a second harvest of oregano and dried in the dehydrator. (Oregano is one of the herbs that is recommended for drying, as the flavor actually improves when dried.) I filled a pint-sized jar with loose-packed leaves. I'm hoping for 2 more jars this size to get me through all the pizza and spaghetti of winter, but I'll settle for 1 more, should that be the situation.

I made a half-dozen single cup coffee filters and a half-dozen tea blanks. I filled the tea blanks with loose tea, so I'll be more likely to enjoy this wonderful tea that I have. 

I made another 3 pints of watermelon rind pickles. I love using something that would just go to the compost otherwise. And the jars look beautiful, with the cinnamon sticks and whole cloves. When using cinnamon sticks in something like these pickles, where I want to leave the stick in the jar, I cut the cinnamon stick in half, lengthwise, with a heavy-bladed knife. Cinnamon sticks often are rolled up in such a way that you can split the stick right down the middle.


Did you create anything this week? Please, share!

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Lavender: it's benefits, spending less on essential oils, and a mini-giveaway

I love the scent of lavender. I know it's not everyone's favorite. But we're all allowed to enjoy what we do. However, I don't want to spend a fortune on the essential oils. Spending less on essential oils, while getting all the benefits of lavender, fits my definition of value for money spent. I'll tell you where I buy oils in just a bit. But first, some info on the benefits of lavender and why it's my choice herbal for the bedroom.


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Lavender has many properties which make it ideal for use in the bedroom.
  • its antimicrobial
  • it's a natural insect repellant (does Fido or Fluffy sleep in your bed? Fleas don't like lavender.)
  • it's a natural sleep-inducer 
As an antimicrobial, it's been shown to inhibit growth of bacteria, including MRSA (the antibiotic-resistant Staph bacteria).

Lavendar has also been demonstrated to be an effective anti-fungal (good for mattresses, pillows and bedding).

It's also a known antiviral. A little spritz on common items in the house, such as throws, blankets and pillows, couldn't hurt when a family member is coughing and hacking their way through the day, in addition to using the lavender spray on bedding,

I also like to add a capful of the lavender spray in the rinse water in the laundry, when the towels are smelling a little funky.

Lavender is a natural insect repellent. In times past, it was a common practice to hang sprigs of lavender over doors and windows, as a natural fly, gnat and mosquito deterrent. And laying sprigs of lavender on doorway thresholds were known to keep crawling insects out of the home.

Storing silk or wool clothing/blankets for the summer? Spritzing your closet with lavender spray will keep moths at bay, as well.

For those with sleep issues due to anxiety, breathing in the scent of lavender is calming to the nervous system. It lifts moods and promotes relaxation. Some people report that inhaling the scent of lavender melts away tension headaches, even.

But, as Cat, from EcoCatLady pointed out, some people have skin sensitivities to lavender essential oil. Just an FYI.

Exercise caution when using essential oils

And for many people, any undiluted essential oil, directly applied to the skin can cause skin irritation or even burns. Oils for perfume or therapeutic use, such as massage, are usually embodied in a carrier oil. The carrier oil diffuses the product while maintaining the scent and healing properties.


Where I buy essential oils (and how I spend less money!)

There are several places that I've bought lavender essential oil. There are a couple of independently-owned shops in the Seattle metro area which sell essential oils. Their prices tend towards the high side. Then there's Super Supplements, a local health and supplement chain. Their prices are good and a great place if I need the oil that day. And then there's online. (Here are several online sources for quality essential oils while spending less money -- check out this article.) My favorite spot online for essential oils is Bulk Apothecary.

Bulk Apothecary's prices are great, and shipping can be low. *One caveat, there is no shipping information page on their site.* So, what I do -- as I add items to my cart, I have the shipping calculated. When I reach a certain threshold, the shipping costs jump significantly. That's when I put 1 item back, and delay purchasing that item until another time when I need more supplies, if possible. And, as always, I do a search for online coupons. Sometimes I find "free shipping" coupons, other times I find % off coupons.

If you look online for reviews on Bulk Apothecary, you will find a mixed bag of very positive and very negative shopping experiences. What I always remind myself is this. Who actually takes the time to write a review? It's usually people with extremely negative experiences. And they often plaster their reviews all over the web. This is evident in the details of their complaint. Those exact same details will pop up on review site after review site. So, I read the reviews, and prepare myself for any possible delays. And as with anything I order online, I never order something on short notice.

Here's my personal experience with Bulk Apothecary. On this last order, I had 5 small vials of essential oil. When I added a 6th vial, the shipping jumped from $6.95 to $11.25. I decided to forgo that 6th item, and stick with my original 5. (And just an FYI, when I had just 1 item in the cart, I believe shipping was about $2.50.) The $6.95 also met the threshold for Priority Mail, with tracking. The $2.50 First Class, Flat Envelope delivery is for small amounts of merchandise, and I believe it does not include tracking. I couldn't find anything on the USPS website that indicated tracking was included in First Class, Flat Envelope mail. Plus, I had an online coupon for 10% off any purchase.

I placed my order around 2 PM PDT, on a Thursday. By 9 AM PDT, Friday, I had shipping confirmation with a tracking number. So, less than 24 hours and my order was processed and shipped. By Monday afternoon, my complete order was in my mailbox. It was well-wrapped (each vial in bubble wrap) and placed in a padded envelope. Couldn't be happier.

Wherever you choose to purchase essential oils, make sure that they are pure essential oils, and not fragrance oils, aromatic oils or perfume oils, as those are often not natural, but are manufactured scents. (Craft stores often carry fragrance oils in with their soap and candle-making supplies. These are not the same as essential oils.) A manufactured scent may smell like the pure essential oil, but it doesn't have the unique properties of the essential oil (such as insect repellent, calming, or antimicrobial properties of lavender).

So now for the mini-giveaway

I have 1 small vial (.5 oz) of lavender essential oil that I will be happy to send to 1 person, randomly selected. If you're interested in entering this drawing, please leave a comment below. Rules for this giveaway:
  • limited to those with a USA address
  • comment must be left by 12 midnight, PDT, Tuesday, July 22
  • winner will be announced in Thursday's post, July 24
And if linen spray doesn't interest you in the least, I will point out that lavender essential oil can be added to hand lotion, bath salts and bath bombs. I add a drop or two to those tiny hotel lotions, to add some lovely fragrance. And I've made lavender bath salts and bath bombs as gifts for several special occasions. And of course, a few drops of lavender oil in a basin of water infused with Epsom salt makes a nice foot soak at the end of a long day. Anyway, enter the drawing if this appeals to you.

~~Cheers

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Tuesday, July 15, 2014

This week's lunch round-up menu: deja vu?

So I'm repeating a few things. But if it works, why mess with it, right? Anyway, here's what's on the lunch menu for this week. I put it all together yesterday morning, and it's waiting in the fridge as I type. (Keeping a week's worth of lunch items on hand is awesome for me, too, as I end up snacking and lunching much healthier than if I have to start from scratch every day.)

  • marinated lentil-barley salad with a mustard vinaigrette
  • hard boiled eggs
  • rosemary-oregano bread
  • rhubarb-blackberry sauce
  • salad bowl of greens w/creamy Italian dressing in a container on the side
  • lemonade
To go with what I made yesterday is peanut butter, jelly, bread, raisins, bananas and yogurt. If something on the "menu" doesn't appeal to any one of us, we can always grab an old favorite.

I was tired and cranky when I got up this morning. It's been far too hot here, with no A/C, and just 1 dinky fan. So I opened the windows, put on some upbeat music, and danced my way to a full fridge.

~~Cheers

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Monday, July 14, 2014

My Cal. King fitted sheet dilemma, my bed-making routine, and lavender linen spray


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The dilemma

For those of you who have read my posts religiously, you know that I've been scrounging for a solution to the worn fitted sheet for our Cal. King bed for several years now. It began in early 2012 with a worn spot in the bottom sheet, which I patched with Wonder Under. That kept everything together for almost 2 years. Then a new worn spot and a tear erupted. Again, I used Wonder Under and kept that tattered sheet holding together for another 5 months. At this point, the fitted sheet was simply too worn to use.

I've been shopping for a new fitted sheet, but the best price would mean ordering through Penney's for about $40. I'm considering that option. But here's my dilemma. We've been talking and talking and talking about getting rid of this Cal. King bed, and putting in a Queen bed. Cal. King's are hard to find linens for. They take up a huge chunk of the room space. And the sheets themselves fill the entire washer each week. I'm just annoyed by their huge size. It wasn't my choice, but was willed to me. I had a perfectly good Queen-size, 4-poster frame all set for this room (still in the attic), needing a mattress and box frame. But the Cal. King came to us, and we've been living with it for 12 years now. So, I've been putting off buying anything new for this bed, with the hopes we could down-size soon.

My temporary solution

In late spring, I came up with an old-time solution. I used 2 large, cotton flat sheets. I tucked the largest (King-size flat) in as much as possible, for the bottom sheet. Then I used my next largest  (Queen-size flat)  cotton sheet to use for the top sheet. It just barely fits, but works well-enough. This is simply the way all beds were made for generations, -- 2 flat sheets, one thoroughly tucked in for the bottom, and one on top, tucked at the sides and foot.

With using a flat sheet in place of a fitted, I do have to smooth and re-tuck the bottom sheet every day. But I don't find that to be bothersome, as my bed-making routine incorporates this step.

My bed-making routine

So, I wash the sheets once per week and the pillowcase twice per week. It's soooo nice to have fresh pillowcases mid-week!

Everyday, when I make up the bed, I pull the top sheet off to the foot of the bed, straighten and re-tuck the bottom sheet. Then I give a spritz of lavender linen spray over the sheet and make up the rest of the bed. The lavender linen spray is just one of those lovely things I do just for me. The whole room smells fresh, and the bed is delightful to slip into at the end of the day.

I don't stop with the spritzing of the sheets. When I change the pillowcases, on Wednesday and Saturday, I give a spritz of lavender linen spray on each side of the bare pillow, before slipping into the fresh cases. At night when I lay my head down on the pillow, I am relaxed by the lovely scent of lavender.

Homemade lavender linen spray

You could buy some pricey lavender spray. L'Occitane sells a 3.4 oz bottle of lavender pillow spray for $22.00. It is lovely, indeed, but overpriced for what you get.

I got hooked on lavender linen spray, several years ago, by a gift of expensive linen water. When I ran out, I decided to make my own. It's super simple to make, and for the price of 1 bottle of linen spray from the department store, I can make about a dozen bottles. If you check the label of any of the commercial linen sprays, the number one ingredient is WATER! You are basically paying for the bottle with a little fragrance thrown in.

Here's how I make mine:

  • 2 ounces 91% isopropyl alcohol
  • 4 ounces distilled water
  • 15-20 drops lavender essential oil (not lavender fragrance oil which may contain synthetic ingredients)
  • 6 to 8-ounce bottle with a fine mist spray (I reused my old linen spray bottle, but you can find suitable empty bottles in the cosmetic section of the drugstore) 
  • optional--coloring (in a small dish, combine 1 drop red and 1 drop blue liquid food coloring with 1 tablespoon of distilled water.  Drop 1/16 teaspoon of this colored mixture into the bottle of lavender spray, at a time, until the desired color of finished product. Remember, keep the color very, very light. It's just to "suggest" the fragrance of the product, not color your linens.)
Add the first 3 ingredients to your spray bottle, and shake well. Add optional food coloring, until desired tint. Shake well before each use.

*if you're really afraid that you'll botch the coloring, here's how I came up with the tint that I like. I made a sample faux-liquid, using just water and the coloring. After, I mixed up the 1 tablespoon distilled water with red and blue coloring, I filled a glass measuring cup with 6 ounces of water. I added 1/16th teaspoon at a time of the color into the plain water. I dropped 1 drop of this colored water onto a square of white cotton, to make sure it wouldn't stain. I decided on just under 1/8th teaspoon total of the coloring/water mix for each 6 ounces of spray. Then, I used that amount (shy 1/8th teaspoon) of coloring/water for my lavender mixture.

Later this week, I'll tell you where I buy my essential oils, a little more info on lavender, and a little giveaway.

Friday, July 11, 2014

This week's edibles and other goodies

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Midsummer, and it's time to create some goodies.

This week, I made 5 half-pints of sweet cherry preserves and 1 half-pint of sweet cherry syrup. I used the directions in Joy of Cooking for the preserves. The cherry syrup is simply the leftover syrup juice from the preserve.

I made 1  1/2 pints of watermelon rind pickles, again using Joy of Cooking's directions. I used whole cloves and cinnamon sticks in place of the spice oils called for.

I almost forgot, I also made a batch of laundry soap and liquid hand soap. I simply melted down 1 bar of allergen-free bar soap in a large amount of water. I don't add anything else to this, for laundry, due to allergies. We have soft water here. This likely wouldn't rinse out as well in hard water. But it is working well-enough for us. And the big bonus for me, my skin can tolerate it very well. For the liquid hand soap, I poured some of this melted soap into the empty soap bottles, and added some green liquid food coloring that I had mixed for another project. Lovely, sea green hand soap, for pennies a bottle.
That's all for this week's creative goodies.


Did you create anything this week? Share, please!


Thursday, July 10, 2014

Even with a large garden, I still have to buy some produce in summer

About now, my family begins to tire of kale, Swiss chard, lettuce and snow peas. We live in a maritime climate where many produce items simply don't ripen until late August, and some can't even grow here (such as avocados and melons).

So, I have to supplement what we can harvest with some purchased produce. Supermarket prices on produce are outrageous on most items. One local store is advertising peaches for $1.99/lb this week! (I'm sure that supermarkets are counting on most shoppers to not notice prices.)

I only want to spend a small amount of our grocery money on fruits and vegetables during the summer. So I need to be very mindful of prices as I plan what to buy. I have 3 locations where I shop for produce, and fortunately they're all along the same highway -- Trader Joe's, Country Farms (the produce stand), and Cash and Carry. I shop Trader Joe's for bananas, Cash and Carry for dried fruit, like raisins (not fresh, but we consider raisins as part of our fruits and vegetables), and Country Farms for overall low prices, yes, but I'm most impressed by their mark-down bin.

Yesterday, I made my mid-July produce shopping trip. I spent $21.95 for fruits and vegetables that will last for about 2 weeks, supplementing what I can harvest from our garden. For my $21.95, I bought 20 bananas, 2 lbs raisins, 2  12-pound watermelons, 1 head garlic, 2 large cucumbers, 3 small avocados for salads (will be ripe in about 4 or 5 days), a bag of 1 1/4 lbs of broccoli florets (marked down for 99 cents), a bag of 1 1/2 lbs of Rainier cherries (marked down for 99 cents), 3 large green peppers (marked down for 99 cents), a bag of 7 small and 1 large very ripe avocados for guacamole (marked down for 99 cents).

The cherries, broccoli and very ripe avocados will be gone within 2 days. The green peppers will be chopped and frozen. One whole watermelon to be consumed in the first week. The second whole watermelon is in the garage fridge to hold until next week. The bananas are in varying stages of ripeness and will be used within a week. The 3 unripe avocados will be added to salads over the weekend. The cucumbers should last 10-12 days. The garlic will last until I harvest our garden garlic next month. And, of course, the raisins would keep much longer than they will last here.

What didn't I buy that I saw yesterday? In the mark-down bin -- 3 ears of corn for $1, heads of leaf lettuce for 99 cents each, a bag of 1 pound of cauliflower for 99 cents, aloe leaves at 99 cents each (don't know what I'd do with aloe), bags of corn husks for 99 cents (these would be great for tamales, but that sounds like too much work right now), a 5-lb box of small oranges  for $3 that looked past their prime (would probably have been good for juicing), a 5-lb box of daikon radishes for $3 (might be good pickled, but that would be a whole lotta pickled daikon, 5-lb boxes of overripe bananas for $3 (that's 60 cents/lb, I can do better at Trader Joe's at about 40 cents/lb). At Cash and Carry, they had fresh strawberries, cherries, blueberries and raspberries for more per pound than the supermarkets. I find I have to be careful buying summer produce at the Cash and Carry, as their prices can often be beat by supermarkets.

By the end of July, more will be ready in the garden for harvest, and we'll have the variety that we crave.

When I have to buy produce in summer, I do have a few guidelines that I go by:
  • fruit needs to be very low-priced -- for fruit, under 40 cents/lb for most fruit. I make an exception for berries, cherries, peaches and grapes, but still look for those items at 79 cents/lb or less. For the most part, I buy watermelons, cantaloupe, bananas in mid-summer. Plus, I often find marked down fruit at the produce stand. This week it was cherries for 66 cents/lb. Even though we have some cherries on our trees, extras are always nice to have. I'll be checking road-side stands for peaches later in the summer.
  • dried fruit at $2.50/lb or less for raisins, $3.00/lb or less for dried apricots and prunes, and about $4.50/lb or less, for dried cherries. One drugstore has had containers of dried fruit on sale meeting these prices, every summer for the past several years, and I'm hoping for the same this year.
  • fresh vegetables at 79 cents/lb or less, and they need to be veggies that I'm not growing, or won't be able to harvest for another month or more.


If you grow some of your produce, are there items that you simply can't grow, but like to buy? A lot of supermarkets no longer offer marked down produce. I'm hoping that they offer this to local food banks and soup kitchens. Do any of your local stores have marked down produce? Do you have a price limit in your mind for how much you are willing to spend for produce?

Monday, July 7, 2014

You are sooo lucky!

I've heard that a lot this past year. "You are sooo lucky that your house is paid for and no matter what, you won't lose it!" "You are soooo lucky to have fruit trees in your yard!" "You are soooo lucky that your kids all got scholarships to college!"

I don't like to use the word "luck". Our culture has a completely different meaning for that word than I do. Our culture seems to think that "luck" has a large component of randomness. Luck just happens to some folks and not to others, or so it is implied in western culture.

The definition of luck, that I appreciate, is this. "Luck is when preparedness meets opportunity".

You can't have a house paid for if you don't put in the effort to make payments. We knew we wanted to have our house free and clear as soon as possible. We saved a little longer than many people thought we should (8 years), and put down almost half of the purchase price to get a lower mortgage. We began making extra principle payments with the very first scheduled payment, and were able to pay off our home in 14 years. It was hard work and discipline, not luck, that got that house ours, free and clear.

You can't have a yard full of fruit tress if you don't plant those trees, or at least buy or rent a house with existing fruit trees. Our very first rented house had an apricot tree and spot for a garden. I'd never planted a garden before in my life, but did so that summer. I was hooked. Our next apartment didn't have room for trees, but we grew tomato plants in pots on the deck. When we moved to Washington, we looked for a rental with space for a garden and existing fruit trees. We hit the mother lode, 2 apple trees, 1 crab apple tree, 2 plum trees, 1 pear tree and 1 cherry tree. My husband was unemployed when we moved into that rental. That fruit accounted for a good chunk of our diet that first summer. And when we bought our current house, we set out to plant it with all kinds of fruit trees, plants and bushes. It's not luck that we have enough fruit to last us over 6 months of each year.

Universities just don't hand out merit scholarships to anyone who applies. My kids worked very hard all through high school to earn those scholarships. I'm a mom, I'm supposed to say that I have the most brilliant kids around. But the truth is, as their mom, I can see their academic weaknesses. These kids have worked their tails off in school. Two of them did a summer of tutoring, to bring their math skills up. When one of my daughters was having a hard time in her History class this past year, she upped her efforts in a hurry. She didn't finish at the top of her class, but got her grade up high enough to maintain her academic scholarship for the next year. If you ask her, she'll be quick to point out that that was not luck. That was a boatload of hard work.


So I'm not lucky, but I am fortunate beyond measure. I've been provided for providentially, and someone, somewhere along the line has put in the work for me to have my fortunes. Sometimes, we put in that hard work ourselves, but sometimes someone else has laid the foundation for us, as when a parent or grandparent leaves a generous gift to their heirs. Some of us are simply more blessed in this area than others. But all of us have been given gifts by our Creator, to use to make our way in this world (that's the providence part). Some of us recognize our gifts early on in life, while others of us don't "discover" our gifts until later. But those gifts are present, nonetheless.

What about the lottery? "Oh, I wish I could be so lucky as to win the lottery." There is some randomness in the actual winning of the lottery. But even someone who wins the lottery had to buy that lottery ticket.  I am guaranteed to never win the lottery, as I won't buy lottery tickets.

Some preparedness has to be expended, if one is to be available to seize that golden opportunity.

You can study hard and you may not receive a scholarship. Or you can plant fruit trees and you still may not harvest much fruit. But if you never work hard in high school, you likely will not receive any scholarships. And if you don't plant fruit trees, then it's certain that you won't harvest any fruit. If we had skipped payments and defaulted on our mortgage, then it is certain that our house would not be ours free and clear, today.

So, with the next giveaway that I host here, I may say, "good luck" to you all. But really, you have zero chance of winning the drawing if you don't enter. You know, I think I prefer to say, "best wishes to you." That doesn't sound at all like randomness to me.


Thursday, July 3, 2014

June grocery money jourmal, a revelation and the winner of a 1-year Victoria subscription

First off, the winner of the 1-year subscription to Victoria magazine. The randomly selected number is 3, Jo Ann. Congratulations! Jo Ann, please email me your mailing address, so I can fill out the forms. lili.mounce@gmail.com

So, we went over our budgeted grocery amount, not by a whole lot, but we did go over. I was beating myself up over this for a few days. Then I reread my grocery money journal for the month, and I could see for myself that I didn't buy junk (at least not a lot of it, some soda for special occasions, and colored sprinkles for cookies and cakes, but otherwise, that was it as "junk"). I spent our money wisely. It's not my fault that grocery prices have risen steeply in the last several months, or that our income has been cut significantly at the same time. I am working hard at this, and I shouldn't feel badly that groceries simply cost more than I can afford right now. Maybe next month will be better, as our garden is producing even more, and our pantry and freezers are well-stocked. It's discouraging, yes, but not a personal failure, simply something that is. I am working hard at something that just is hard.

In most of the other areas of spending, we are doing well. We continue to implement savings strategies on utilities, entertainment, leisure travel, clothing, gas for the cars and cleaning supplies. Medical expenses have risen and for our family will continue to go up for a while. We simply have medical needs right now for a couple of family members. Can't do anything about that. University costs have risen. Again, I have zero control over tuition increases. However, we are doing well with books and supply costs, either renting books or buying books used, online/from other students. And of course, property taxes rose this year by several hundred dollars. We'll just have to work around these areas that represent increased spending in our budget.


June 1.
We've been cutting and cutting and cutting, and we still need to cut back more. Next month, we have a further reduced grocery budget. We're scaling back to $165 in July, and seeing if it will work for us. This month we have $170. At the same time, I'm trying to "bank" more surplus for late summer/early fall stock-ups. All while grocery prices keep shooting upwards! We'll see how it goes.

June 1. It's a Sunday and the girls would like a ride to St Vincent de Paul, to check out their 99 cent clothing day. SVdP is on the main highway, so I turn this into an opportunity to make a run down to Trader Joes and the produce stand. At Trader Joe's I pick up 15 bananas, for a cost of $2.85.

The produce stand is just down the road. I get 1 cantaloupe (39 cents/lb), 1 cucumber (50 cents), 3 avocados (3/$1) and a bag of 5 large pasilla peppers (99 cents). I spend $3.58.

June 3. I checked the ads online for Walgreens, Fred Meyer and the Cash and Carry. Cash and Carry has a few things I'm interested in on sale. I buy 50 lb sack of onions ($8.81, that's about 18 cents/lb), 50 lb sack of stone-ground whole wheat flour ($20.08, 40 cents/lb), 25 lb sack of carrots ($6.98, about 28 cents/lb), a case of 6 #10 cans of diced, canned tomatoes ($15.96), a gallon of lemon juice ($4.97), a small box of cornstarch (99 cents), 3  4-lb jars of chunky peanut butter ($5.98 each, about $1.49/lb), 2-lb bag raisins ($4.59). Total spent $80.32, for a month to date total of $86.75.

June 5. Fred Meyer has eggs and milk on sale this week. I buy 2 gallons whole milk, $2.50 each (great for making yogurt) and 2  18-ct cartons of eggs ($2 each). While I'm there, I buy some ground ginger from bulk bins (66 cents), and I find balsamic vinegar mayonnaise on clearance for $1.32 per 30 oz jar. There are 4 jars left, but I only buy 2, for a total spent of $12.30.

June 7. Heading back to Fred Meyer on way home from dropping daughter at the park and ride. I buy 2 more gallons of whole milk (for yogurt), and 2 more cartons of eggs, plus I find 1 half gallon of skim milk on markdown for $1, and 2 gallons of 1% milk on markdown for $2. I'm set for milk for the month of June, now. Total spent today, $14, for a month to date spent of $113.05.

June 9. So, I'm looking in the pantry, fridge and freezers. It all looks pretty well-stocked. I will try to only buy stupendous deals and a little extra produce for the rest of the month. We may just make my goal of setting aside more money for the fall.

June 11. Fred Meyer for butter with a coupon, 1lb for $2, limit 2. I buy my 2 and pick up the non-food items I need here. Spent $4.

June 13. Safeway has cans of coffee on sale today only for $5. I buy 4 cans of French roast and spend $20. We now have enough coffee to get through the year and into 2015.

June 13. My daughters had a day off. When I asked what they'd like to do, they wanted to go to Goodwill. While there, I find seed packets for 29 cents. I buy 4 packets of spinach seeds. Spent $1.27

June 14. Albertson's has 2 lb blocks of cheddar for $4.99 w/ coupon (limit 1). I also need pectin for strawberry-rhubarb jam ($5.19). Spent $10.18.

June 20. Fred Meyer has eggs on sale with in-store coupon 4 dozen for $5. I check out the clearance rack and find blue sprinkles, perfect for 4th of July cookies, just 89 cents. Spent $5.89, for a month-to-date total of $154.69

June 23. Down near the produce stand, Country Farms, stop in and buy 1 eggplant (I'll make easy eggplant casserole, 79 cents), 1 head garlic (50 cents, ouch! can't wait for my garden garlic to be ready to dig) and a cucumber (50 cents). Total spent $1.79.

June 28. Walgreen's has 2-litres of soda pop for 79 cents each (plus tax), limit 3. I buy our Christmas tree decorating party bottle of cola, and 2 bottles of lemon-lime (one for punch for a special occasion and the other nice to have on hand in case someone in the family catches a stomach bug). I've got these at the back of the pantry right now, out of view, out of mind. Spent $2.60

June 28. I'm at QFC loading a bus pass onto my daughter's bus card and decide to check the dairy aisle for mark downs. I find 5 gallons of whole milk (4%), good for making yogurt, for $2.09 each, and 3 gallons of skim milk for $1.89 each. Total spent $16.12.

Month-to-date spent on groceries -- $175.20, $5.20 over budget. I'll deduct this from our running surplus from previous months, leaving $54.51 in surplus. We spent $40.88 per week, on average for the month of June, a really small amount for 5 adults, and I need to remind myself of that regularly.




Sunday, June 29, 2014

This week's lunch round-up

It's a short work week, with Friday as a holiday, so I'll prepare a little less in my round-up. (If you're thinking, "what in the world is she talking about, lunch round-up?", see this post.)

So, for this week, I'll be making:

"neatballs" (bean-based meatballs, recipe here, and thanks to Belinda from The Frugal Workshop as her post last week reminded me to make neatballs again soon) -- I made a large batch of marinara last Wednesday, now in the freezer. I'll get a container out and the family can put together "neatballs" and sauce. With the "neatballs", I'll add,

garlic bread -- I have 1 loaf of French bread left in the freezer, from big-batch baking early in June. Split open, spread with homemade garlic butter, oven-toast and cut into chunks. I have a feeling these will go quickly.

mixed salad greens and shredded carrots, undressed -- I'll pick, wash and tear 3 salad spinners full of various salad greens from the garden. Wrap in a large dishtowel, then slide into a large plastic bag, and the lettuce will stay fresh and crisp all week. Add in 1 or 2 carrots, shredded. To this, I'll make up a jar of salad dressing, probably 1000 Island, always a favorite here.

a pan of rosemary polenta -- also delicious when topped with marinara, and super simple to make

individual cups of blackberry-rhubarb sauce -- I use small, 10 oz peanut butter jars with screw top lids. Dollar Tree sells these small jars of peanut butter. The jars are great for lunch items that might be a tad leaky.

a half-dozen boiled eggs


For the week, there will be 3 different fruit or vegetable options, 2 grains and 2 protein items. I estimate this will take about 1 & 1/2 hours to prepare. These lunch options will be supplemented with pbj sandwiches.

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Victoria magazine: one of my indulgences (*and a giveaway*)

I discovered Victoria magazine when my twins were toddlers. While at the library checking out picture books for them, I'd steal by the magazine rack and check out back issues of Victoria magazine. I loved the photos, the garden tours and the recipes. During toddler nap times, I'd escape to other lands as I envisioned beautiful places and sumptuous meals. I was hooked.

Victoria magazine went away for a couple of years. But when they came back, I decided to use some birthday money to give myself the gift of escape, once again. Every year now, I indulge myself and renew my subscription, using birthday or Christmas money.

In case you're not familiar, Victoria magazine appeals to those enamored with the vintage lifestyle. It's pages are filled with photos of lovely gardens, interesting travel destinations, vintage decorating, and entertainment ideas. While I couldn't live the Victoria lifestyle on a daily basis (my vintage china cannot go into the dishwasher, and I really don't want to hand wash dishes daily), it has provided inspiration for planning major holiday events in my home.

And now, I have the opportunity to give away 1 one-year subscription. The only qualification is you must have a USA address  If you'd like to enter to win this subscription to Victoria magazine, leave a comment below.

I understand that this magazine won't appeal to everyone, and that's okay with me (you won't hurt my feelings). But if you'd like a one-year subscription, please enter.

This drawing for 1 one-year subscription to Victoria magazine will remain open until 12-midnight PDT, Tuesday, July 1, 2014. The winner will be announced in my regular post on July 3, 2014.





Monday, June 23, 2014

What I pack in my husband's lunch bag that saves us money

There was a time when eating lunch in a restaurant during your work day was just unheard of. Every working person either packed a lunch to eat at noon, or was provided with lunch by their employer, if they were working in someone's home. Heading out to drop an hour's worth of wages would have seemed ridiculous to most folks.

Today, it's relatively common to grab a restaurant meal during the lunch hour. If you have money to spare, that's great. But for our family, that money we don't spend on restaurant lunches is put to better use in other areas of our budget.

So, earlier in the month, Kristen from thefrugalgirl.com mentioned that she had to send her husband out for lunch on a couple of occasions, as she simply didn't have any leftovers to pack for him. I totally understand where she's coming from, as we reached this point, too, several years ago. The kids get bigger and suddenly, there's nothing left from dinner to pack for lunch.

In our house, this is now compounded by not just my husband needing a lunch to take everyday, but also my two daughters. (My son gets lunch for free every day, the lucky guy!) I suspect that packing lunches for the workers in the family becomes an issue at one time or another, in other frugal families, as well. So, how have I managed this, while keeping to a small grocery budget?

I could buy bread, chips, lunch meat, fruit roll-ups, pudding cups, etc. But that would burn up a large chunk of my grocery budget and, depending on choices, may only provide marginal nutrition. Here's what I do instead.

On Sunday evenings, I scramble to put together enough for my family for lunch the next day. Often this includes, some nuts, raisins, pbj sandwich, bottle of milk, and a muffin, piece of cornbread or a biscuit. This may sound like a lot of food, but what I pack covers breakfast and lunch, as my husband and daughters are out the door before 6 AM and eat breakfast while commuting.

Batch-cooking, but for lunches instead of dinners

I used to think of batch-cooking as a dinner prep help. But I've found batch-cooking to be extremely valuable for preparing lunch items, as well.

On Monday morning, I prepare large batches of 4 to 6 items from my list below.  (I'm usually in the kitchen anyway on Monday mornings, making bread or yogurt.) I choose simple-to-make items, and spend about 2 to 3 hours total.

The bonuses with making these lunch supplies are three-fold: 1) any time anyone wants a snack, they can help themselves to these healthy and low-cost, home-cooked items, and 2) any busy night when I just can't get dinner made, I can pull together a meal in minutes using some of the lunch supplies, and 3) I use whatever is left on Friday afternoon to add to a simplified version of that night's dinner menu.

I often find that I've made more than a week's supply of some items. As I'm packing menu items for the fridge, I'll put extras into the freezer, to use for another week's lunches sometime in the future.

Remember, I only make 4 to 6 of these items, not the whole list!

One fruit -- in spring and early summer, this is usually rhubarb sauce, but may also be cut up melon, fruit salad, opening a can of pineapple, or homemade fruit gelatin cups. In late summer, we usually have a lot of fresh plums and apples for lunches. When my daughters had braces on their teeth, I would slice up apples, swish with lemon juice and put into small containers or baggies, several days worth, and keep in the fridge. Just like those packaged, sliced apple snacks, only practically free (apples from our trees).

One vegetable -- this can be cut up raw veggies, or, undressed salad greens, or, oven-roasted carrots, onions, sweet potatoes, or green beans, or, a veggie medley with zucchini, onions, garlic and tomatoes.

One grain item -- usually a rice dish, such as herbed rice, Spanish rice or Asian-style vegetable fried rice. Some weeks I make a batch of flour tortillas, for making burritos, or a pan of cornbread, or make a batch of corn tortilla chips.

One soup  -- this item will usually have a good source of veggie protein, like lentils, split peas, or other cooked beans some of the soup stock from the freezer, and a lot of vegetables.

One main dish salad -- in warmer weather, I'll prepare either a pasta and veggie salad (w/lentils or beans) or a tabbouleh-type salad with grains, beans and veggies.

One treat item -- this is usually something like muffins, or, a loaf of banana bread, or, a batch of tapioca, rice pudding or custard.

One simple, low-cost protein item -- refried beans or a bean-based spread or dip, or boiled eggs. These can be eaten, as is, or in a sandwich or burrito, or with crackers, tortilla chips or raw veggies.

A small pot of cream cheese spread -- simply softened cream cheese blended with herbs from the garden (chives, parsley, basil) and some chopped olives, or, softened cream cheese blended with dried fruit or crushed, canned pineapple. I may also pick up a box of crackers from the dollar store, or make a batch of crostini, if time allows.

One quick to assemble casserole -- often this uses the odds and ends from the fridge and freezer. It can be as simple as cooked pasta, chopped canned tomatoes, Italian herbs and topped with grated cheese. I bake this in a small baking dish, for about 10 minutes to melt the cheese. Family members cut squares of the casserole and put into containers.

One batch of smoothies to freeze -- I make a pitcher of protein smoothies, using milk, peanut butter, banana, cocoa powder or berries, vanilla extract, sweetening if desired, and rolled oats (I use the recipe for a weight-gain shake one of my daughters was drinking several days per week, only I now pour into smaller containers). I pour into 6 ounce containers and freeze. These can be grabbed from the freezer on the way out the door, and eaten semi-frozen with a spoon while commuting.

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Every week I choose different items, so lunches never become hum-drum. Last week, it was lentil-vegetable soup, herbed rice, refried beans, roasted carrots and rhubarb sauce. I made a batch of flour tortillas later in the week, for do-it-yourself burritos for Thursday and Friday lunches. This week, it's fruit gelatin cups (creamy rhubarb jello),  a pasta-tomato-chicken-cheese casserole, a tabbouleh-style salad, carrot sticks and sour cream-herb dip, kale-ham-cheese muffins, and I'll open a can of pineapple.

In the mornings, family members chose the items they want and we work together to scoop into containers. They may also make a pbj sandwich, grab some yogurt, or a handful of raisins -- it's up to them. But the above items give variety to make lunches interesting for the week, hit the major food groups (whole grains, protein, fruit and vegetables) and are very low-cost to make. I estimate that I save about $20 to $25 per week preparing these items, instead of buying typical lunch fixins'.

I do have to add, all of my kids (and husband, too) are adults and have more mature tastes. Many of the items that I now prepare would not have been huge hits with the kids when they were, well, kids.

(And just an FYI -- Kristen from thefrugalgirl.com did say she now tries to have back-up lunch ideas/items for when there are no leftovers in her house. She didn't give details, but I'm sure she's come up with some awesome lunch ideas.)



Thursday, June 19, 2014

Another reason why it's important to count your blessings

I was reading this study the other day, about how feeling "poor" can lead to depression. Now I don't mean a case of the "I wish I had that handbag, boat, vacation, dinner out" depression. But depression with a big D.

Low socioeconomic status is one of the predictors of mental health problems. The reach of economic-related depression, goes beyond those individuals who we typically define as living in poverty (unable to meet their basic human needs with their income). Relative poverty, or looking around and seeing that your neighbor has enough money for more worldly luxuries than you, can lead to mental health issues, as well.

The haves and the have-nots

There will always be someone who experiences a higher standard of material living than we do. That's just a fact for all but one person in this world. But where you live can affect how much relative poverty exists for you.

Some states have a greater divide between wealthy and poor, than other states. Utah and Alaska have the least division between wealthy and poor. There are more folks right there in the middle, economically, in those two states.

The two states/districts with the highest level of income inequality are New York and the District of Columbia (Washington DC). When you think about NYC, there's the Wall Street tycoons, and then there are the many service-oriented/lower wage workers. In DC, you have the upper-echelon government members, and again the lower-paid service sector of employees. It would be tough on one's ego to live there, and be in that lower tier.

Even if you don't live in either NY or DC, one's own community can leave a person feeling "poor".

"Huge income gaps in a community can make people feel impoverished, even when they are not poor by economic standards - and blaming themselves for their "failure" may add to depression risk". (http://news.msn.com/science-technology/feeling-poor-it-could-be-linked-to-depression)

This resulting depression is more prevalent among women than men. Many jobs traditionally held by women, (education, childcare, home healthcare), don't reward the employee as well, financially as those positions traditionally held by men. Women may work as hard, or harder, in their profession, have the same amount, or greater level, of education, but still not be compensated financially to the level experienced by men. Hard work that is not fully recognized or rewarded leads to frustration, perceived lack of achievement and depression. Doesn't sound very promising, does it?

How do I deal with our relative poverty and the potential for depression?

So, what's the answer for us right now. Being aware that this could become an issue for me, just helps me to be more vigilant with my own stinkin' thinkin'. I find help in counting my blessings. Our family may be struggling to pay for our current expenses, right now, but when I take a world-view, I can see how "wealthy" we really are.

For the most part, we are experiencing a very high level of physical health. Women used to die in child birth. Babies often died in the first year or two of their lives. My grandmother's baby brother died as a child, from something that is now "fixable" with surgery. A great aunt of mine suffered with the effects of polio for her entire life. When was the last time you heard of someone contracting polio?

Even on a very tight budget, we have some of the technology that enhances our leisure time -- television, computers, cell phones, speedy methods of leisure travel (can you imagine traveling across the US by covered wagon?).

All 3 of my kids will have university educations. Even with universities becoming more and more expensive, we will be able to do this. Higher education used to be limited to the upper class, and not just because of economics, but socially limited as well.

We live in a nice (and paid-for) home, in a low-crime area, and have heat, food and clothing.

These are some of the big things that I remind myself of when feeling "poor". But everyday, I can find small moments of gratitude that boost my outlook.
  • We have a garden that is allowing me to pick fresh strawberries for breakfast each day this month. 
  • Even on a small grocery budget, there is still room for ingredients to make treats for me and my family. 
  • On Sunday, my in-laws loaned us a bag full of videos/dvds to watch this next month. 
  • I may not be able to buy a bouquet of flowers for the house, but the other day I, once again, cut a bouquet of 10 pink, hybrid tea roses, now gracing the mantel of our fireplace. 
  • My daughters kept their GPAs high enough to qualify for their merit-based scholarships, covering half of their tuition for this next year. 
  • And all three of my kids are gainfully employed. 
  • My computer died completely two weeks ago. But my family has graciously allowed me time on their assorted computers, until I can finish saving to buy a new one for myself.  And again, even on a tighter budget, there is room for this savings.
These are all physical, material things that don't even touch on the emotional/spiritual blessings I feel each day.


Some days, I do feel "poor" and depression is just waiting at the door for me to let it in. On those days, I have to think up a long, long list of blessings to count. Other days, just seeing the silver lining in "my" cloud lifts me up. (No computer of my own, right now, means more time to do other things. Cutting flowers from my own garden gets me outdoors, even in the June gloom. Keeping a garden may be work, but it's also exercise, and much more fun than walking on a treadmill for an hour each day.)

I'm not saying that we can just talk our way out of real depression. Mental health is vitally important. And real depression needs attention. But for many of us, keeping a gratitude journal, whether just a mental list or actually writing it down, can mean the difference between a positive or negative outlook on our own lives.

The other lesson from this study, I learned, is this. It's not productive to compare yourself to others, whether it's belongings, talents, health or family. Our lives are what we have. We can improve many elements of our own lives. But comparing ourselves to others seems like a huge waste of time, to me.

We had a contractor working on our house about 5 years ago. I'd see something in a magazine and come to him and say, "I wish we could use XX design/material here". He'd reply, "it is what it is. XX won't work here, so lets think of something that will." That way of thinking works in many areas of our lives.

And finally, I call on this prayer, often, in my life.

The Serenity Prayer,  written by Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971)

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.
Taking as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with Him forever in the next.
Amen.

What blessings are you counting today?


sources used for this article:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3968015/
http://news.msn.com/science-technology/feeling-poor-it-could-be-linked-to-depression 


Monday, June 16, 2014

30 places to look for rock-bottom food prices

So, I realize that I have many more options for buying food than many of you. I get that. I spend way less than many of you, because I have less to spend than many of you. And even I have to get creative in my shopping venues.

When something I regularly buy goes way up in price, or I add something new to our repertoire, I have to search out the lowest price for that item. I begin shopping around at every grocery possibility that I can think of.

This is my list of where to look. I have personally used or checked into every single one of these shopping venues. It's always worth checking, as you never know when you will discover that rock-bottom venue for your favorite item.

Please add any other possibilities as you think of them.

Produce and meat
  • produce boxes (Bountiful Baskets) and CSAs. These can be hit or miss. It's a good idea to read any reviews you can find. I was able to find reviews online for our local Bountiful Baskets.
  • open-air produce stands, not adjacent to a farm
  • local farms, both u-pick and with a stand on the edge of the farm
  • local ranches for meat. If you're in Washington state, check out farmstr.com. They provide a market place for local farmers, for very specific amounts and types of meat. You can also google organic meats, free-range, grass-fed, and the name of your county. I found the ranch where we want to buy grass-fed beef sometime in the future, by doing this sort of online search.
  • farmer's markets (our big, well-known farmer's market is in downtown Seattle, Pike Place Market. It's fun to visit, but not always the best prices.) We also have 2 farmer's markets within a 15 minute drive of my house. They're limited to one day per week, and only run during the summer months. You'll find the best deals in the last hour of the day. You just need to make an offer. Worst case scenario, your offer is declined, and you can decide if you want to make a second offer.
  • buying meat at drop-off locations, through operations such as Zaycon Foods. Check out www.zayconfoods.com for more information, if this interests you. Their refrigerated trucks bring large boxes of meat to a specified drop-off location. You stay in your car, they load your trunk, and you're set with meat for a while.
  • street corner produce vendors. these typically sell one item, like flats of strawberries. They often represent a particular farm in the area, but by selling on the street corner, they sell direct and avoid the middle man. It's always worth rolling down the window to ask their price.
  • gleaner's associations in your town or city. You can search online for "gleaner's associations" "your town's name". Many large cities have associations which function to match up gleaners with spots around town with produce needing to be harvested. 
Markets, big and small
  • small ethnic markets -- you can find some fantastic deals in ethnic markets. I buy tapioca pearls from the local Korean market. A friend of mine finds produce deals at the ethnic market near her. Look around. Do you have any particularly ethnic areas? Check out their local markets.
  • small "health foods" stores. Sometimes these have bulk bins for buying only the amount that you need. We have a specialty "health foods" store offering a variety of grains, spices and cooking dry goods. The packaged foods are expensive, but the bulk section is great. They even sell local honey from a large cask -- bring your own bottle. This may be where I buy some honey this summer. 
  • Amish or Mennonite markets. These stores you need to find by word of mouth. But I understand the prices can be very good on staples.
  • "import" home stores. Our local Cost Plus has a pretty extensive foods section. I've already told you that I get my vanilla beans there. But also, they carry the brand of olive oil that I really like, at a significantly lower price than supermarkets.
  • independent grocery markets, like IGA. We had an independent market nearby that put out a coupon book once per month. Their coupons had some great deals.
  • drug stores. I often find eggs, milk, coffee and bath tissue for less at local drug stores. I don't get their flyers in the mail, but I can go online to see the ads each week. This week, one of them has the bath tissue that I like, for $1.50 less per package. I'll be stocking up!
  • discount retailers, like Target, Walmart and Kmart. More and more of these discounters are adding large food sections. When I was buying vegetable oil in 1 gallon jugs, I found it for less at Target than at the cash and carry wholesaler. Walmart has a few items that are the local lowest prices, as well.
  • traditional chain grocery stores. Everyone knows about checking the store flyers. The front and back page of the ads have most of the deals. But at one particular store, I find good store coupons on the inside pages as well. Also, check the marked down or clearance sections. I've been shopping the clearance section of one particular store for Christmas gift items this month. Some clearance items are all together in a back corner of a supermarket, others (the perishables) are somewhere in their "regular" are, sometimes just in their usual spot, sometimes in a designated "marked down" spot. Try different days of the week and times of the day (earlier in the day is usually better than later in the day, and mid-week is usually better than weekends, for marked downs). And remember, you can freeze almost anything that is nearing it's expiration date. Back in March, I found a bunch of containers of fresh mushrooms on markdown. I cooked them in butter and froze in small containers. We're still using these mushrooms in dishes for the family. Pay attention to particular holiday stock-up opportunities. Thanksgiving gives me the chance to buy several turkeys to freeze, potatoes to store and canned pumpkin to stock up on. Christmas and Easter usually provide the lowest price on hams to freeze. St. Patrick's Day usually sees the lowest price on cabbage for the entire spring and early summer. Memorial Day, 4th of July and Labor Day are great opportunities to stock up on hot dogs and other barbeque items.
  • membership warehouses such as Costco and Sam's Club. You really need to do the math to see if membership would be valuable for you. Costco used to let you shop in their store, but pay a small surcharge. Even with the surcharge, it was still worth it for us to shop there for certain items. Our Costco no longer allows this. If you want to see if their prices would be favorable for you, you could always tag along with a friend and check all the prices out.
  • dollar stores. There are some surprises in local dollar stores. No longer is everything on the food shelves expired or dented stuff. In fact, Dollar Tree says that once something has passed the expiration date, they reduce it to clear. I have gotten some great deals on chips and candies that were marked down to clear. On their regular shelves, this is where I buy lasagna noodles, crackers, soy milk and sometimes peanut butter.
  • discount food stores, like Grocery Outlet. the deals are hot or miss, but I have found a few real deals. My family still remembers the haul of cold cereal I bought there many years ago. I also found deals on large institutional sizes at Grocery Outlet.
  • specialty food stores, like Trader Joe's. Trader Joe's is great for organic items. Many of their "regular' items are organic, such as tofu, and soy milk. They also have a decent organic produce section. I also shop here for bananas (19 cents each), nuts and dried fruit, all under the Trader Joe's label (I'm not paying for advertising and packaging).
  • gas stations and mini markets. Okay, so most of their grocery prices are horrible. But, many have good deals on prepared items like pizzas. When we've been on vacation, we've bought large pizzas for under $7. Compared to eating in any restaurant, that's a steal for a vacation family meal. Our local 7-11 advertises pizzas for $5.55 each. And don't forget, July 11th (7-11), free small Slurpees for all.
  • restaurant, institutional and bakery suppliers. Cash and Carry is our local, sells-to-the-public place. In other areas, there's Smart and Final.
  • single item food distributors. The cheapest place to buy large sacks of non-instant dry milk, in our area, is the Seattle Darigold distributor. Back when we bought dry milk, this is where we purchased it. Non-instant dry milk comes in 55 lb sacks, each pound making 1 gallon of milk.
  • craft and fabric stores. No, not those overpriced candy bars at the check-out! I make the rounds of the craft and fabric stores a week after each holiday, and buy up holiday cake and cookie decorating items and candy-making supplies, for the following year. This past year, I bought up peppermint bark melting white chocolate, for making some peppermint bark this coming year. I also bought a large package of green and red sprinkles for 90% off. Also, when I need food coloring, I use a 40% or 50% off coupon to Jo-Ann's Fabrics (always an online coupon available) and buy one vial of the color I'm low on. Jo-Ann's is hoping you'll use that one coupon for one item, then pile a bunch of other stuff into your cart at regular prices. But if you're careful, and just buy what's either on sale/clearance plus the coupon on the one item, shopping at craft and fabric stores can definitely be frugal.
Online
  • Amazon.com. Amazon has some items at great prices. But you really need to do comparisons, as great prices are not an across-the-board thing with Amazon. I do always check Amazon for unusual or pricey items (some spices and seasonings). If you have a few friends to share out a large package of vanilla beans from Amazon, you can save a bundle on making your extract.
In your neighborhood
  • neighbors who keep hens for eggs. We have a neighbor nearby that occasionally puts a sign out advertising they have eggs again for sale. Some neighborhood hen-keepers will offer a discount, if you trade them your empty egg cartons.
  • neighborhood cooking exchanges. These are easy to start up in your own neighborhood. Simply find 2 or 3 other neighbors with similar eating tastes and family size, and start a meal exchange. One afternoon per month, you make enough of a meal for your family, plus 2 or 3 other families. Then you deliver at an agreed-upon time. 2 or 3 times per month, you get a break on making dinner, as the meal is delivered to your door by another member of your cooking exchange.
  • informal neighborhood food swaps. You have apple trees, your neighbor or friend has pear trees. You swap some of your fruit for some of theirs. Or, you make one variety of jam or pickles, enough for your family and more, and exchange with someone who has made a different variety. Work is simplified by making large batches, and your variety is increased by swapping your excess.
  • neighbors with fruit trees that go unpicked year after year. When we first moved into our house, I noticed that our neighbors across the street weren't picking their apples. We approached them and offered to pick their apples for them for a share, or even a swap for our firewood. The woman told us that her arthritis in her hands was too painful to peel apples any longer, but we could have their apples. So, I baked up a bunch of apple cobbler in disposable tins to take over to their house. She could freeze them to use later. We were both happy. We got some apples and she was able to enjoy some of her apples without having to do the peeling. Last fall, a friend of mine called to say that her old neighbor wanted to know if she wanted his apples. He didn't think they were very good apples. But my friend said "sure". One morning, she brought a bag of apples over and we turned them all into applesauce, adding just a bit of sugar, lemon juice and cinnamon for flavor.
  • at the holidays, the old "cookie exchange". These are fun and a great way to "produce" a variety of holiday cookies for your family. You bake 5 dozen of your family's favorite cookies, and invite 5 or 6 friends over to sample some cookies, drink some tea, and to divide up all the cookies for each person to take home. Even though it's only June, I'm already planning our cookie exchange for this next December. The bonus to hosting a holiday cookie exchange is it sort of takes the place of buying or making gifts for many of the friends that I invite. Its festive, a gesture of hospitality and a great way to kick off the holiday season for us when done in early December.

Are there other places you have thought of, to find rock-bottom prices on grocery items? I really haven't shopped online all that much for food, so I am sure there are more online sources. Please add any that you know of.

Of the places already listed, is there a particular item or two that you've found at its best price? For example, I've found great prices on cocoa powder at Trader Joe's, and I understand that Aldi's is also a great place for cocoa powder. But at Trader Joe's, I wouldn't buy vanilla beans. I can get those cheaper at World Market or Beanilla.com.  

Or are there specific places or organizations that I haven't explicitly mentioned by name. For instance, for drop-off meat companies, I knew of Zaycon foods. But I don't know of any others. Do any of you?

Does anyone here fish or hunt, or is married to someone who fishes or hunts? Have you ever swapped fish or game with a friend for some of their garden produce? We had a neighbor, once, who gifted us with some venison after we gave him some fresh-picked plums.

Does anyone here keep a goat or cow for the purpose of milking? Or stock a pond with trout? Or keep hens? Some of these ideas seem really out-there. But under the right circumstances, even the out-there ideas might be helpful.

When you're traveling, does anyone here make plans to buy regional food items to bring home? Last September, when we drove to and from California, I wanted to stop and buy California olive oil. I couldn't sell this to my family, though. If I were traveling to a place like Georgia, I'd be checking out places off the beaten track that sold pecans, and do a stock-up purchase.


Thursday, June 12, 2014

May Grocery Money Journal (spent $37.50 per week)

May 1. The produce stand, hoping for markdowns, but not much there. I buy 1 yam (79 cents/lb), 1 head of cabbage (50 cents/lb), and 1 seedless watermelon (39 cents/lb). Spent $3.90. These items will round out some of our garden and freezer produce for the next week.

Dollar Tree to pick up a bunch of items. While here I get 8 jars of peanut butter. Spent $8. This should last the month of May.

Cash and Carry for a few items, but it will be expensive. I buy 35 lb container of vegetable oil ($22.58), 50 lb sack of pinto beans ($29.25), 50 lb sack all-purpose flour ($13.19), 1 gallon soy sauce ($5.59), 6-lb container Crisco shortening ($9.58) and 2-lb bag raisins ($4.59). By buying the veg oil and pinto beans in such large volume I estimated that on those two items alone, I saved us $21.25, over buying smaller quantities at a time. The pinto beans work out to 59 cents/lb! And the veg oil, about $5.16 per gallon. Anyway, I spent $84.78.

Last stop, Trader Joe's for bananas and tofu. I buy 12 bananas (19 cents each) and 1 lb of organic tofu ($1.49). The tofu is for lasagna later this month, to replace ricotta cheese (too much dairy for me). Spent $3.77 Month to date spending so far (and it's only the 1st of the month -- yikes!) -- $100.45.

May 7.  Country Farms, produce stand for 2 small avocados (2/$1), 3 small bunches leaf lettuce (99 cents), 3 grapefruit (99 cents), 7 pasilla peppers ($1.29), 1 cucumber (50 cents), and a head of green cabbage (50 cents/lb). Total spent -- $5.78

Fred Meyer for whole milk (1/2 gallons, $1.25 each, limit 4), natural peanut butter, 16 oz (3/$5), bought 6, some turmeric ($11.79 lb). Spent $15.94

May 11. Country Farms for marked down produce -- found cantaloupes, 50 cents each (bought 4), 3 red peppers (99 cents), large eggplant (99 cents). Spent $3.98

May 13. coupon for cheese at Safeway -- $4.99 for 2 lbs, limit 1. spent $4.99. total month to date -- $131.14 -- not as bad as I thought it might be, but our freezers are beginning to empty out. That's to be expected for this time of year. I'm not anticipating much to go on sale between now and end of the month, with exception to hot dogs and soda pop near Memorial Day. So, the rest of my grocery money will likely be used on produce and milk. We have enough meat to last through autumn, the garden is producing, we have eggs to last through June, so I think we're doing okay. We'll see how the second half of the month goes.  As a point of reference, May 2013, I spent $258.92.

May 19. Fred Meyer still has milk on for 4 half gallons/$5, limit 4. I stop in on way to get daughters. Spent $5.

Also make a stop at Trader Joe's while out and pick up 13 bananas, at 19 cents each. Spent $2.47.

May 20. Albertsons has hot dogs on sale w/coupon 3 package limit, 88 cents each. I choose the chicken franks. Spent $2.64.

May 21. Again this week, Fred Meyer has the milk coupon 4 half gallons for $5. My daughters need special no-slip shoes for work, and Fred Meyer is recommended as a place to find them. (I mentioned on my facebook page, a couple of weeks ago how my two daughters are sharing one pair of shoes for work.) I buy the milk, my daughter buys the shoes. I spent $5.

May 23. another stop this week for milk, and powdered sugar. I've had these 2 coupons on my desk all month, 1 a store coupon for C & H sugar, $1.67/2 lb bag, and 2nd a manufacturer coupon for C & H sugar, any product 2 lbs and up, 40 cents off, making my price on 2 lbs of powdered sugar $1.27. I buy 4 milks, and 1 bag sugar, spending $6.27.

May 25. Last shopping of the month -- Fred Meyer one last time (Fred Meyer seems to have more good sale prices this month than any other store in our area), this week for coffee (33 oz cans, $5.99) and marked down sour cream (containers are slightly squashed), 79 cents for 16 oz. I buy 2 cans of coffee and 2 containers of sour cream, spending $13.56.

Total month to date spending on groceries for May -- $166.08

I came in $3.92 under budget of $170. I'll add this $3.92 to the rolling surplus of $55.79, for a carry-forward surplus of $59.71, available for future months. I averaged $37.50 per week, which is $6.02 less than last month's weekly average of $43.52.

How much I spend each month fluctuates with available deals and loss leaders, combined with seasonal price adjustments on staples, and how much is growing in my garden. Late spring greets us with a good portion of our produce needs. By May's end, our garden was giving us rhubarb, spinach, kale florets, chard, mustard greens, lettuce, garlic greens, chives, oregano, thyme, sage, mint, lemon balm and pea tendrils to add to meals.

This month, I stocked up on a few staples, such as coffee, Crisco shortening, pinto beans, soy sauce, all-purpose flour and peanut butter. I was also able to buy enough milk to get us through mid-June, and found many markdowns on produce at the produce stand. We're fortunate that we have a freezer full of meat (ground beef, hams, turkey and whole chickens), and a garden for our produce. Those two will help keep our grocery bills down through the summer months.

So, we're still in a tough place, financially. I need to cut our expenses further. I'll be reducing our grocery spending beginning with June. I'll be taking it in small increments, and see how it goes.

If you are feeling discouraged about finding low prices on food, stay tuned for Monday's post. I think we can put all of our ideas together and build a master list of all of the places to look for grocery deals.


Tuesday, June 10, 2014

The value of technology in a crisis

Last Thursday


One daughter, Grace, was just finishing up her shift in the dining hall on campus. Wiping down counters from serving lunch, she was watching the clock on the wall. Very soon, she would call her sister to tell her she's leaving campus and heading home. The two of them always call each other before one leaves campus.

The other daughter, Julia, had just arrived at her theater class. Everyone was in high spirits. They were setting up the sets for the end-of-year awards show for the Theater Department. There was much joking around, while some students held the large scene panels in place and others hammered them securely. A lot of talk about summer plans, saying goodbye to the graduating seniors, and the mystery surrounding next year's dramatic productions, to be announced at the awards show on Saturday evening.

Meanwhile, about a block and a half from the theater building, a young man walks into the math and sciences building, armed with a shotgun, and opens fire. The shots can be heard across the street, in the student union building. It's a small campus. You can walk from one end to the other in 5 minutes.

Back in the dining hall, Grace looks up at the clock, "just a few more minutes," she thinks to herself. Suddenly, the hour and minutes on the clock disappear, and it changes to emergency notification mode. "Campus in full lock-down". SPU has lock-down drills from time to time. So it's not immediately known whether this is a drill or a real threat. The students and dining hall staff begin to follow lock-down procedure. Doors are locked, they move away from windows and doors, and secure themselves behind the counters in the serving area. Sitting on the floor, the students pull out their cell phones and begin checking the SPU website for more information. A tweet goes out, "this is not a drill. The threat is real. Remain in lock-down." With no other details, students become somber and quickly send out texts and calls to their friends on campus. Grace pulls out her phone and calls her sister. No answer. Grace calls again. Still no answer. She sends a text. No reply. Fearful and worried, Grace calls home. This is the very first I have heard of the lock-down on campus. There's no information online or on the local news, yet. Grace asks me to pray with her. Then she asks me to call Julia and find out if she's okay. I end my call with Grace with my usual, "love you, stay safe", what I always say when I think they may be heading to an unknown place, or an area of downtown that has a crime history.

Lock-down unfolds quickly. Staff have been well-trained to implement all procedures speedily. In the newer buildings, the doors are locked automatically and remotely from the campus security office. In the older building, staff locks all entrances to each building. The clocks all across campus are electronic, and in the event of an emergency, switch over to reader boards to display information and instructions.

In the theater, Julia and her classmates are having a good time with their work, when one of the students yells out, "hey, there's a lock-down!" Some students grab their cell phones to check for more news, then text and call friends. Rumors of what has transpired to cause the lock-down begin to fly. One possibility is the on-campus bank has been robbed. This rumor is possibly the result of someone hearing gun shots coming from the area right across the way from the student union building, where the bank is located.

From home, I try calling Julia, with no answer. I try again, in case she heard the ringtone on her phone, but didn't get to it in time to answer. Still no answer. This is my way to let family members know that my call is urgent. I repeatedly call their number within the course of 2 or 3 minutes. This time, I leave a message to call me immediately. While waiting, I grab the family ipad and begin searching for information. Nothing online yet.

My phone rings, and it's Julia. Thank God she's okay. She tells me there's a lock-down, her phone was in her backpack sitting in one of the theater seats, and she thinks there's been a bank robbery on campus. I tell her to abide by the lock-down, and end the call, "love you, stay safe."

I call Grace and let her know that Julia is okay and she's in the theater department. Grace just wants to have me on the phone for a bit. So we chat about things. Not knowing what has transpired to cause the lock-down, the mood of our call is not terribly intense. When Grace is feeling more settled, I tell her that I want to check the news again, and give Julia a call back. In that moment, breaking news flashes across the bottom of the television screen. There's been a shooting on campus. Several people injured. I phone Julia immediately and inform her that it's not a bank robbery, but a shooting, and to follow all instructions given by staff in the theater department. She tells me that she just heard it was/is a shooting, and she wants to call Grace. So we end our conversation.

I'm watching the news, as they update information by the minute. There are 4 people injured. There are 7 people injured. There's a second shooter on the loose. They give a detailed description of the second suspect, "white male, wearing a blue shirt with vertical stripes". There aren't 7 injured, but 4 injured. The first shooter is down and apprehended. The information seems to change frequently.

I call Grace, then Julia, and relay all the information I am seeing on the TV screen. When the news first breaks, the aerial view from news helicopters shows deserted streets and common areas, but dozens of police cars. Several ambulances appear within a minute of the news breaking on TV.

I call my sister, and ask her to pray. I call my husband and son. My son has just heard the news from a co-worker and he was in the process of texting his sisters. I inform him that they're safe, and in lock-down across the street a ways from the shooting location, and that I'll keep him informed of changes. He offers to drive across the lake and get them from campus, if need be. I tell him I'll let him know.

I'm back on the phone with both daughters, giving them all the information I have. We pray together regularly throughout this crisis. About an hour into the lock-down, Grace says she's been down to 1 bar on her phone all afternoon, and she's about out of battery power. I ask if she brought her laptop to class today, and she says "yes" and it's in a cupboard across the room. I ask if it's safe for her to get across the room and grab it. She thinks so. So I end the call telling her to open up her gmail and I will email her immediately and we can keep in contact online. I fire off a quick email to Grace, then call Julia and let her know that Grace's phone is about dead, but she should be able to reach Grace by email. That's when Julia informs me that she left her laptop at home that morning. (My daughters use inexpensive, prepaid phones, with no internet access.) So, I become the intermediary. Grace can email me. I can phone Julia. And work this in reverse, as well. The tone of Grace's first email to me reflects how grateful she is to have me at the other end of gmail. Over the course of the lock-down, we exchange about 16 quick emails. I'm able to let her know that there was no "second shooter", and the lock-down should end soon. I also tell her that the view from the news helicopters show students coming out of the gymnasium across the street from the building where the shooting occurred, and there are many, many students gathering on the lawn in the center of campus. It looks very safe at this point, and I am relieved immensely that everything is wrapping up. I call Julia and we decide that when the lock-down ends in her building, she is to walk across campus to the dining hall and meet up with Grace. Then she should call me and we'll figure out how to get them both home that afternoon.

While Julia is walking across campus, I'm on the ipad again, this time to go to the Metro bus system website for updates to the bus schedule. The aerial view on the television shows the street where the bus runs is blocked off. The Metro website informs me of temporary route changes, but I'm unfamiliar with some of the "new" street names. My mind is tired at this point. Two of the worst hours of my life have just flashed by, and I am having a hard time processing how to get Julia and Grace home. So I call Julia. She says she and Grace are in the dining hall gathering up all of Grace's stuff, and wanting to know if the buses are running normally. I tell her, "no", but suggest that they both head over to the bus stop and see if anyone there knows where the temporary bus stops are. Both girls are as emotionally exhausted as I am, and on the verge of tears, as they begin to hear more details of the shooting. But they walk over to the bus stop (with me on the line the whole time) and tell me there's a man that always rides the late afternoon bus that they sometimes take. He's on staff at SPU and friendly with them. The girls break down into tears at this point, not knowing how to get home today. This nice gentleman says he knows someone who can give them a ride, and he ushers them inside the music building (the building right alongside the bus stop). He takes them to the office of a woman/professor that Julia already knows. She offers to take them anywhere they need to go that afternoon. The staff and faculty at SPU have gone above and beyond the call of duty on this day, to reassure and comfort the students, and see to it that everyone is looked after. Julia calls me back and tells me that "someone" is giving them a ride. "Someone," I say, "what someone?" Always a worried mom. Julia hands her phone to the woman and she identifies herself to me and asks where she can take them. I tell her I would be grateful if she could drop them off at Westlake, a major bus interchange in downtown Seattle. I thank her and she hands the phone back to Julia. I quietly ask Julia if she knows this woman, and she says "yes". Not leaving anything to chance at this point. My mom-alert is heightened after this day.

During the entire 2-bus trip home, I call Julia and Grace several times. The two of them walking in the door is a huge relief to all of us, and we hug for several minutes.

From electronic, emergency reader boards in every building, to internet access, to cell phones and to television news coverage, I am so grateful for the technology of today. My daughters could be reassured by my presence and by calls/texts to each other and their brother. We could be united in prayer together, over the phone lines. Not being able to keep in touch with them would have made this day one hundred times more stressful. And I think every student and every parent affected by the tragedy would concur. Being able to keep in touch with those you love is more valuable than any expense to have this technology.

I often say that I am content to not have a cell phone of my own, but I insist that all of my kids have one. If at some point, I spend more of my day away from home, and our land line, I will reconsider having a cell phone myself. I would want my kids to be able to reach me during any crisis, if for no other reason, so I could reassure them, and give them comfort through a difficult event.

I know that sometimes we wax poetic about the simpler times from long ago. While it would be nice to have a simpler life, free from some of today's distractions, in a crisis I am so thankful to have today's technology.





Monday, June 9, 2014

A month of dinner menus for our house this June


June brings more variety in the garden for me to plan with. The beginning of the month will still have plentiful salad greens, spinach and mustard greens. Later in the month, these spring vegetables give way to snow peas, Swiss chard, beet greens, new potatoes, strawberries and blueberries.

I was feeling nostalgic for old-time favorites as I planned this month's menus. Included are two dinners from my mom's 1957 cookbook. In addition, for the months of June, July and August, we think it's fun to plan a dinner almost entirely from our garden. I'll begin that little tradition at the end of the month. June is also the month for me to clean out the freezer. I believe there's some frozen cooked turkey, cranberry sauce and lots of soup stock to use up. Time to make room for freezing some summer produce.

Summer means simpler meals and lots of cookouts and barbeques. 

Here's what we're having this month.


week of June 1 through 7

1  soft rosemary polenta with quick marinara, marinated lentil-barley salad (double batch for June 4)
2  roast chicken (freeze 1 container of meat for June 19, make chicken stock w/meat for June 9), steamed spinach, biscuits and gravy, rhubarb sauce
3  leftover chicken dinner, green salad, leftover rhubarb sauce
4  lettuce wraps with leftover lentil salad, Asian-style greens, garlic and noodle saute (great way to use garden greens)
5  Retro Night -- Tuna Bake with Cheese Pinwheel biscuits, lemon-buttered carrots, creamy rhubarb jello
6  meatball sandwiches, spinach salad, leftover jello
7  burritos (refried bean -- double batch and freeze for June 20, rice, corn, peppers, sour cream), green salad, fresh fruit

week of June 8 through 14

8  grilled ham and cheese sandwiches, green salad, canned pineapple chunks
9  chicken noodle soup, pumpkin muffins, green salad
10  baked bean casserole from the freezer, steamed garden greens, brown rice, rhubarb pie
11  Breakfast-for-dinner -- Corn-meal griddle cakes, ham slices, fresh fruit cup
12  Retro Night -- Home-style Macaroni and Cheese, green salad, roasted carrots, leftover rhubarb pie
13  Mexi-style rice and beans, green salad, strawberries
14  hot dog cookout, pasta salad, rhubarb jello salad, s'mores

week of June 15 through 21

15  Father's Day (plans are still up in the air)
16  turkey, garbanzo & tomato soup, garlic bread (from freezer French bread), green salad, plum pie (use freezer plums/crust)
17  waffles with fruit topping
18  bean patties (double batch and freeze for June 25), sauteed garden greens and garlic, herbed brown rice, strawberries
19  Retro Night -- Deep Dish Chicken Pot Pie, green salad, strawberry shortcake
20  refried beans (from freezer), Spanish rice, green salad, leftover shortcake
21  hamburgers, pasta salad (with canned tomatoes, olives, green veggies from garden), fresh strawberries

week of June 22 through 28

22  Breakfast-for-dinner -- Crispy-crumb Eggs, Cowboy Coffeecake, sliced bananas and strawberries
23  turkey, cranberry, cream cheese sandwiches, fresh fruit, green salad
24  veggie quiche, herbed brown rice, fresh strawberries, green salad
25  bean burgers from freezer, microwave corn bread, sauteed garden greens and garlic
26  ham salad sandwiches, fruit, garden vegetables, chocolate-banana bread
27  marinated lentil-barley salad over greens, fruit cobbler
28  hot dog cookout, fresh strawberries, green salad, s'mores

week of June 29 through 30

29  sloppy lentils on buns, sauteed garden greens with garlic, strawberry sorbet
30  Garden dinner -- green salad, new potatoes, strawberries and blueberries, steamed snow peas, French bread (from freezer) and cheese

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